Random Thoughts

Friday, July 20, 2007

Vacation

I am headed out on vacation. Tomorrow I will be going to Cedar Point!! Tis my favorite place on the planet!!

On Sunday I am going to Iowa to visit my family. Randomly though my parents are here in Indiana. They are meeting me on Sunday and we will be caravaning to the hills of Iowa. Then on Thursday I'm going to an amusement park in Iowa, Adventure Land. My brother works there and we are going to hit the roller coasters!!!!

Wahoo!!

I love vacation.

I do not love school. Seriously I don't appreciate when most of my classroom furniture is gone. Where are my groups suppose to meet? Should we sit on the floor?

What???

Okay so Sarah Dignal is married? What is going on here. How come no one told me. I love the pics of her wedding. Who would like to give me the scoop on her wedding??

Let me know!!

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Guys

Has anyone figured out the mystery of men? I was recently on the phone with a guy and he threw in the..."you wanna hang out sometime...." Seriously what does that mean?
a. I've been on vacation and truly just miss hanging out with friends.
b. I'm bored and you are not working this summer, so we could hang out.
c. I'm single, you're single...so let's hang out.
d. I want to ask you out on a date, but I don't know you that well...so let's hang out as friends first so I can get to know you.
e. I'm getting closer to 30 and realize I'm single and I need to settle down with a wife.
f. When can we get married?

Okay this is a little over kill...but seriously guys are confusing. They send mixed signals.

For example...I was hanging out with a guy a LOT about 6 months ago. We were together almost every Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday. He called me on the other days and we talked for hours. We did things together, for example we went to the park and walked and talked. I've been to his house many time and have even gotten to know his family. But recently I've seen him and he is distant. He doesn't call as much and we don't hang out because he is working so much. But, he always makes promises, "I want to hang out. I'll call you." Really now...come on. Do you really want to hang out or are you just a player and want to keep me in your loop 'in case.' Do you really not want to be friends, but are afraid to drop me or tell me the truth?

I would rather guys just be honest. At least I would have to wonder and I would spend a lot less time (obsessing)thinking/wondering and more time living my life.

So, how do you know when you have met "The ONE"????? Some people say they know right away. But with many of my friends one of the parties involved was in LOVE long before the other knew they existed. What is you know he's the one, but he doesn't. When is the right time to tell him? If it is too early, you will scare him off....but if you wait, you will lose him.

I hate being single. I don't even want to do the "dating" thing. I would rather skip to married and live happily ever after. Dating is a hard game to play, your emotions are on the line and there is a point where you have to live in limbo because you don't know how the other person feels.

Guys are soooooo confusing. Any advice??